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Friday, December 16, 2011

kiss kiss kiss

salam...its been a while i dun feed my humble blog..miz it! arghhh! was sorrounded wit hectic life (owez!)... here n there seminar...target sales yang tak akan pernah surut....appointment sana appointment sini... tak pe lah nama pun makan gaji! itu pun syukur lah...untuk sapa aku buat semua tuw...if tak untuk 2 ketoi nie... si qawiem n si adik...adra!

huhu! missing them...sangat-sangat! aku terpaksa pos derang balik kampung dok ngan tok tam depa...sebab baby sitter ku de hal yang perlu di lakukan...tak dapat nak ngelak laie....hantaq aje! lagipun anak mak tam aku tuh dah besar2...so no hal untuk jaga anak menakan derang neh... upah sowang seratus kowt! yang ade 5 owang... kopak kauuuu!!! tapi tak per....janji 2 ketoi nie terjaga! they are the most world's valuable sources and its best for future! wakakaka....




the 3 of us....never apart!


cayang mama! muuuaaahs! (sayang ada makna..baru lepas beli toys @ pacific)



sweet......caaaaaaaayang abang!


owhhhh cayang mama! both of you really light up my life..... 



again, abang will presents his kiss each time he got what he desires!

biler aku tengok gambaq2 nie...rasa cam sedey pown ade....tapi tak tau la sedih pasai apa....aku paling terharu each time tengok si abang care kat adik dia....even adra baru 11 bulan tapi...hua hua hua! brutal kowt....tak de nak bagi chance kat abang dia nak rapat ngan aku.....sure dia tarik rambut...pukul2 manja lebey kurang....pastu nanes! 

owhhhhhh! rasa nak menitik air mata sebak!!.....i luv both you .... n mama doakan both of u selamat dunia akhirat!

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

So Inspired. Lets teach our beloved kids to Solat

Salam pretty....
Bila mood berblogging datang memuncak-muncak tak dapat ditahan-tahan lagi...mulalah aku menggoogle something to share with uols and the most important thing to remind myself...so dalam ber blog-blog walking ke forum-forum....ke ste-site berbentuk keagamaan...i found this real story of Wardina sharing how she teaches her dotter Amna to perform Solat full 5 waktu.....hohoho! kau ado??? so inspired....

kiranya touching betoi lah biler baca pe yang dia luahkan....dia boleh buat...so aku? huhu.... apalah sangat kalu duit berjuta pown ye tak? harta melimpah ruah....bukan boleh bawak ke kubur! bukan leh tanam sekali ngan kita...so apalah yang tinggal...nie ler dia DOA ANAK-ANAK YANG SOLEH!....


Ini antara artikel yang ditulis selebriti dikenali ramai, Wardina di Facebooknya dengan tajuk

 BERBALOI PENAT LELAH KU…
Dear Mama, Ummi, Mum, Ibu, Bonda…
I have to share this with you… because i feel so happy and i feel that all my penat lelah paid off…I started to make my Amna to solat 5 times a day when she was 7, on her 7th birthday…we had a talk…(check note lama) tapi preparation since 6 la…
tapi dari kecik memang selalu ikut2 la kami solat….she hasnt missed her solat since. Walaupun lambat, tetap solat. I made sure of that – because the key is SOLAT ni kalau tak tanam dari kecik memang LIAT nanti….But it is very important to keep this in mind:-
1) kalau kita bagi dia tinggal WALAUPUN sekali nanti we are sending the wrong signal – kena make sure – every waktu without fail, walaupun penat, ataupun lambat..
2) l Selalu kalau boleh solat together..mula2 memang kena solat together….kalau tak ada rumah make sure an adult in the house pastikan anak kita solat. (hari tu Amna pergi her reading class, i asked her teacher to take her to the surau) -lepas solat time tu lah peluk cium, senyum – i always kiss her at the head and say “Barakallahufiha” Ya Allah make my Amna a good Muslim Ya Allah….make her never miss her solat Ya Allah…..kuat2 bagi dia dengar….
ps:- kalau kena amik cuti ambillah – bukan waktu exam je amik cuti – buatlah STEP ini, yakni melangkah ke alam 7 tahun dan tidak meninggalkan solat A BIG Thing! “mama amik cuti hari ni sebab nak pastikan yang adik solat 5 waktu sehari!”
3) Selalu cerita how IMPORATANT it is to solat..how Allah is watching us… how we are good Muslims when we solat, how Allah loves us, Solat tu, untuk kita, bukan untuk Allah…..TAPI selalu jugak cerita yang akan ada orang TAK solat…acknowledge the fact that sometimes we feel lazy to solat….itu semua kerja SETAN! Fight them off….! I tell Amna that even some grown ups tak solat! I tell Amna that….we have to be strong.. we have to tell ourselves we will NEVER miss our solat…..
4) Awal2 subuh ni memang tak bangunkan, tapi as soon as dia bangun pagi, ill ask her to solat straight away.(yes memang leceh..but we have to, and we have to do it with LOVE diselang seli dgn strictness)
5) kalau dia tinggal – DENGAN sengaja, i take the rotan and hit her on her tapak tangan slowly, just as a reminder. After that i hug her and tell her i love her, and i just want her to remember – and guess what?? memang dia ingat!!! (3 kali baru, i think not bad, sampai satu hari dia terlambat solat, sebab keluar dan memang tak ingat, dia yang suruh rotan) But i tell her kalau TERLUPA atau TERTIDUR its ok…but kena solat terus bila bangun.
Macam ni ceritanya, i told Amna, kalau Ummi ambik Amna dari sekolah lambat, Amna solat dulu Asar kat sekolah….tadi memang datang lambat…i was loking for her..and guess what????
She was actually praying her Asar prayers…sorang je kat dalam surau tu….i wanted to pengsan and cry…she did all by herself…. i pun told her how happy and how proud i was of her…i tanya dia kenapa? dia kata “Amna ingat apa Ummi cakap”…..cair nya hatiku ini.
Apa lagi, Ummi ni peluk cium dia….and called nenek at Australia…now im sharing with all of you!!! Because i want us to raise generation of good Muslims that are disciplined, smart, intelligent -that remembers Allah because the world so BADLY needs good QUALITY Muslims like this!!!
And the foundation is – to start them off right – solat at SEVEN! Yes just as how Rasulullah asked us!I love you all!!! Good night….. But the key to all this IS Mak Ayah KENA dan WAJIB solat dulu…anak ketam tak boleh diajar berjalan terus…fahamkan?
aduhai....realy2 hope i can do like wat wardina.... walaupun memerlukan pengorbanan tapi hasilnya berbaloi-baloi!



Sunday, July 24, 2011

Not Easy being a Mother, if it were Easy, fathers would do!

hye mummies... i believe all of us want the best for our children... right?  so theres 5 things mum do right for their children!


~Give to their kids. One of the biggest sacrifices that all moms make is their time. Whether it’s nursing a baby all night (huhu! the next day sure feeling so sleepy) or entertaining a toddler all day esp for babies who strated to learn crawling.. running kids from softball to soccer all afternoon, moms give up their personal time to help their kids grow and develop.

~Make important choices for their kids. Everything from eating vegetables to going to bed at a decent hour, there are things that we do for our kids not because we particularly love doing those things (or fighting with our kids to get them to do them!), but because we know it’s best for them.

~Let their kids make their own choices. We try to help our kids learn to be independent and decisive by letting them make their own choices—mostly on some of those things that aren’t quite so important, like what color to wear today.


~Try. Some days it seems like I’m killing myself trying! Even if we fall short, I truly believe that if we have tried, something positive we’ve done for our children will make an impact on them.


~Love their kids. Even if we’re not perfect parents, and even if it were true that we’re doing a worse job than our parents did, don’t accuse moms today of not loving their children.


they are my great inspiration...cool!


note: of all the rights of women, the greatest is to be a mother!

Friday, May 20, 2011

they make my day


awak....ye awak berdua...
awak tau tak sesuatu?
awak berdua yang mama carry ol the way in my tummy
mama leh rasa uols
tendang sana sini....
jap gerak sana jap gerak sini....
masa tuh mama xsabar tgu awak berdua....
biler pergi scan mama xsabar nak jumpa awak berdua...

awak berdua....
buah hati mama...
mama bersemangat sebab awak berdua....
walau susah mana mama carries awak berdua...
mama tak rasa awak berdua beban....

awak berdua..........
mama tau awak berdua boleh rasa apa mama rasa....
sebab awak berdua ada dalam mama.....
awak berdua taw biler mama sedih....
biler mama rasa ditinggalkan....
awak berdua yang bagi mama harapan....
walau pun papa or dady or ayah or apa jua...........
tak der ngan mama.....

awak berdua....
tapi skarang mama nak pesan...
andai one day mama tak der lagi....
mama tak nak awak berdua bermusuhan....
must care to each other....ye sayang!

lastly....
awak berdua kena ingat..........
mama sayang awak berdua hingga ke akhir hayat mama....
mama nak awak berdua jangan lupa solat...
sebab itu tiang iman mu...
jadilah anak2 yang menghormati orang tua....
dan mama berdoa awak berdua jagalah akidah mu...

janganlah awak berdua jadi anak derhaka......

~doa ibu itu tiada hijabnyer~